ON THE COUCH: Shocking Confessions of a Self-Made Millionaire: #1 Personal Growth Hack for Wealth Creation
Almost every person on the planet wants to be rich. However, not everyone is willing to put in the necessary work to get and stay rich.
Even if you win the biggest lottery in recorded history, you’ll have to learn new ways of being and doing to effectively manage, sustain and grow your wealth. Without growing your knowledge and changing certain habits, you simply will not be fit for wealth.
What I’m about to tell you isn’t mere conjecture. It is not only something that I’ve personally learned and lived the hard way but have borne direct witness to this truth as a veteran entrepreneur and success coach who has worked with people across the globe from all walks of life. From execs on wall street, to a gang leader to those behind bars, it is a hard-proven fact that if you don’t know yourself and continue to grow yourself, you won’t be fit to achieve wealth or well-being.
I’m going to share with you the #1 growth hack for becoming fit to be rich. And, when I say #1, I mean it is the TOP PRIORITY. Many will tell you otherwise. They’ll tell you to go to your CPA, a wealth manager or learn how to invest in the stock market or other commodities. But, if you do not do this first and foremost, you’ll be putting the proverbial cart before the horse. You’re the horse, and you need to be a thoroughbred who is well trained to be strong enough to pull the cart full of wealth behind you.
The #1 Wealth Building Growth Hack is to regularly and routinely take a fearless character assessment of yourself. This means putting pen to paper (old school) and rigorously being honest with yourself in admitting your character deficits. This is a practice that one can’t afford not to adopt. For every unknown character deficit or flaw that you would prefer to continue to be in denial about, will become a deficit on your financial balance sheet.
It’s a hard truth that great wealth takes great strength and that strength comes from within not from outside of oneself.
Here Are the Top Seven Questions to Answer When Doing Your Assessment:
1. What is my biggest character strength?
2. What is my biggest character weakness?
3. What can I do to expand on my biggest strength?
4. What can I do to convert my biggest weakness into a strength?
5. A character trait I’m exhibiting lately that I don’t like, and I’d like to change is_________.
6. 1 truth about myself that I’d rather not admit and am resistant to change right now is______.
7. The 1 criticism I’ve heard multiple times from others about my behavior is ___________.
This is an exercise in self-love not self-loathing. Increased wealth and well-being comes from self-actualizing the highest vision of our most evolved selves. And, it is the way of the peaceful, loving, compassionate, giving wealth warrior.
In Closing My Shocking Confession:
I couldn’t believe all the stress and problems I was having with people! Seemed like everything I was doing was turning into a big endless stream of problems. I was worn out from dealing with people who were wasting my valuable time, energy and money. Why, oh why was this always happening to me?! I had to take a time out to journal out my frustrations! I got my trusty journal out and began to write a stream of woes me words that filled up many pages. Then, something mysterious happened. I felt compelled to go back and read what I wrote and that’s when it happened…I experienced a big aha moment. I saw a pattern emerge from the stories contained in the pages. And, it gave me pause and I had to ask myself: “Linda, what’s your part in all of this?”. The glaring truth emerged. I was impatient and expected things to be difficult. There it was. There I was. Getting in my own way and causing myself and others unnecessary strife. The truth has set me free.