ON THE COUCH: Shocking Confessions of a Self-Made Millionaire: 7 Questions that Reveal If You’re Succeeding or Failing
It’s very common to question yourself whether you’re on the path to success or not. Feelings of “do I really have what it takes or am I just deluding myself” can creep into your otherwise confident and positive mindset. It’s normal. Questioning oneself is a healthy sign. It shows humility and a willingness to see truth and grow.
However, a habit of doubting yourself without taking action on the truth of what the answers reveal, creates stagnation and an unhealthy state of being causing damage to ones’ ability to achieve self-esteem, confidence, personal growth and success.
The most successful people in life are the ones who ask questions. They’re always learning. They’re always growing. They’re always pushing. ~Robert Kiyosaki
Are you a constant self-doubter or a self-doer? The most successful people understand that knowledge without putting it into action is useless. So, even if you are a seeker who is good at asking the right questions and getting answers, without application, the wealth of information received has no utility in helping you to achieve personal and professional success.
Before you go further in this post asking yourself the 7 questions that will reveal if you are on the path to success or failure, first answer these two prerequisite questions:
1. Are you a constant seeker of information who doesn’t put what you’ve learned into action in your own life?
2. Does your mind regularly and unintentionally drift to questioning yourself wherein you immediately push down or avoid addressing the question?
An honest appraisal of your ability to face truth and reality head on is the first step to being able to utilize your innate intelligence to move you out of stagnation and into attaining success in all areas of your life.
Now, if you can honestly answer no to the above or have answered yes and are willing and ready to move out of self-denial and into self-made success, then go ahead and answer the below questions that will further reveal if you’re taking yourself down the path to success or failure.
Ask Yourself These 7 Questions to See If You’re on The Path to Success or Failure:
1. Do I believe I don’t need others to succeed?
2. Do I regularly need to be right and insist on having my way?
3. Do I care more about competing against others than myself?
4. Do I think I don’t need to invest in my own personal growth?
5. Do I feel I don’t have time for rest, friends or family?
6. Do I spend more time nurturing my bank balance than my relationships?
7. Do I fail to express empathy for others struggles, challenges and concerns?
If you’ve answered yes to one or more of the above, then you’ve entered the danger zone. It’s time to hit the pause button and take a time out to remember your values, re-prioritize your activities, and adjust your habits and actions to set you back on track to being a successful person.
Asking without answering is self-denial. Seeking knowledge without application is a waste of valuable energy. Doing without thinking is self-sabotage.
To become a success and stay a success, one must routinely ask themselves what they could be doing better, and then act on the answer.
In Closing My Shocking Confession: I kept asking myself the same one question over and over, and year after year. Was this partnership right for me? And, each year I kept coming up with the same answer. Yes, it’s OK. Why, then was I experiencing more and more discontent? Finally, after a particularly challenging year in this partnership, I thought to question my “It’s OK” answer. What did “Ok” mean? I decided it was time to take it out of my head and get it onto paper. I drew up “the list”. You know the one. The pros and cons list. The result was that the pros side was very long and on the con side—1 single entry. Well, then, it would seem the landslide justified my inaction. But, upon further questioning of each item, what I realized was that the 1 single con represented my most cherished value. I had my answer, and it was time to take action. And, I did.