Powerful Questions to Help You Achieve Your Goals

Powerful Questions to Help You Achieve Your Goals

The job of a professional coach is not to hand you all the answers, but rather to guide you towards the right solution for your specific situation. One of the ways a coach does this is by asking powerful questions.

In order to help steer you down the right path to your unique solution, a coach can help you view the situation from another perspective through the use of provocative questions.

Recently Forbes asked members of the Forbes Coaches Council to talk about what powerful questions they use to encourage the breakthrough clients need for success.

Find out my favorite question (it’s surprising that many people have never been asked this) as well as the questions 15 other professional coaches use to help clients reach their potential and achieve their goals.

Read the article on Forbes.com

Why Your Definition of Success Is Broken And Keeping You From Success

Why Your Definition of Success Is Broken And Keeping You From Success

This article originally published on Forbes.com

We’ve all been told and conditioned to believe that success is whatever you define it to be. The great untold truth is that this is a misguided directive that has prevented a huge percentage of the population from achieving sustainable success.

In my coaching practice, I regularly ask my new clients what their definition of success is. The most common response is a big pause and then an impromptu answer. The second most common response is a nebulous, non-specific one. For example:

Coach: “Can you please tell me what your definition of success is?”

Client: “Happiness”

Coach: “What does happiness mean to you?”

Client: “Feeling fulfilled”

Coach: “What fulfills you?”

Client: “Having a lot of money?”

I think you get the unclear picture presented. There is one hardcore fact about achieving success that I’ve learned. If you can’t clearly and specifically define it, you’re either going to:

1. Not achieve it.

2. Take the long, slow road to get there.

3. Not be able to sustain it if you, by chance, achieve some.

I remember as a young entrepreneur starting out, I was determined to become “successful,” and I thought I’d better be clear on society’s definition of success. I consulted the go-to resource for the answer. I grabbed my Merriam-Webster dictionary, and this is what it said:

a: degree or measure of succeeding
b:
 favorable or desired outcome; also: the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence

Upon reading the definition, I felt disheartened and confused. How could success be caught up in fame, respect or money? It just didn’t feel right. So, I kept researching. I then came across a famous success expert’s definition. In his book Born to Win!, Zig Ziglar says that success cannot be defined in one sentence, but instead it is comprised of many things.

Now I was really confused. For the life of me, I couldn’t understand why there wasn’t a clear, specific and universal definition of success that was one-size-fits-all. Why was there so much lack of clarity on the meaning of success?

In my personal journey of overcoming life-threatening health challenges, financial adversity and spiritual tests — and then becoming a self-made multimillionaire, medaled amateur athlete and coach to people from all walks of life, from main street to Wall Street, gang members, cons and ex-cons — I discovered the true and singular definition of success, the one that is indeed the one-size-fits-all definition. It’s the one definition that, if used collectively by society, would help us achieve success more rapidly and sustainably.

So, here it goes: Success is defined as a balanced achievement of wealth and well-being through consistently living the truth of ones’ grace-inspired values.

A broken definition of success is one that does not take a holistic approach. It leaves out some aspect of the whole person. The whole person is:

1. Physical

2. Mental

3. Spiritual

4. Financial

5. Emotional

Does fame provide nourishment to the whole person? Does accomplishing one singular goal? Does wealth cover all aspects? No. Only a balanced achievement of wealth and well-being can do that. And, one can only accomplish that balance through consistently living the truth of their values. If not, the “success” is at risk of failing. I could go into a multitude of real-life stories of people who achieved some aspect of success and then lost it because they either compromised their values or, through not knowing their core values, failed to prioritize living them out in all their decision making.

How do you start to clearly and specifically define what wealth, well-being and your values are? First, ask yourself these two essential questions:

1. What is the most important thing in the world to you?

2. Why is it the most important thing to you?

Answering these two questions will start you on the path to clearly understand what innate forces drive you so that you can craft a picture of what a balanced achievement of wealth and well-being looks like — one that supports your core needs and provides you with fulfilling and sustainable success. After decades of success coaching and working with both individuals and corporations, I’ve discovered that every single goal anyone goes after is an attempt to fulfill only one of two things: security or recognition.

When defining success and goal-setting, take your whole person into account, know your core values, understand what’s important to you and understand that you’re always either seeking security or recognition. Make sure that all you seek is grounded in humility rather than ego to ensure you’ll achieve sustainable “success,” as defined as a balanced achievement of wealth and well-being.

Linda Zander Accepted into Forbes Coaches Council

Linda Zander Accepted into Forbes Coaches Council

Linda Zander, Founder/CEO Super Sized Success and Pioneer of the Maximum Riches Formula™, has been accepted into the Forbes Coaches Council, an invitation-only community for leading business and career coaches.

Linda Zander joins other Forbes Coaches Council members, who are hand-selected, to become part of a curated network of successful peers and get access to a variety of exclusive benefits and resources, including the opportunity to submit thought leadership articles and short tips on industry-related topics for publishing on Forbes.com.

Forbes Councils combines an innovative, high-touch approach to community management perfected by the team behind Young Entrepreneur Council (YEC) with the extensive resources and global reach of Forbes. As a result, Forbes Council members get access to the people, benefits and expertise they need to grow their businesses — and a dedicated member concierge who acts as an extension of their own team, providing personalized one-on-one support.

 “Here at Super Sized Success, we are committed to delivering the next generation definition and model of success imperative for attaining and sustaining success amid today’s global challenges. I am so very honored, excited and grateful to accept Forbes invitation to join their World-renowned entrepreneur and leadership community. Our alliance with the iconic Forbes global media brand will enable us to broaden our impact worldwide through its on-going mission to promote entrepreneurial innovation across a broad range of platforms.” Linda Zander

Scott Gerber, founder of Forbes Councils, says, “We are honored to welcome Linda Zander into the community. Our mission with Forbes Councils is to curate successful professionals from every industry, creating a vetted, social capital-driven network that helps every member make an even greater impact on the business world.”

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